It can be very difficult to take car of an aging family member. My grandma was seventy five years old, and for the last two years, my husband and myself had been taking care of her. I found out that I was pregnant one year ago, and my husband and I felt like we were not going to be able to take care of my grandma anymore. I did not have any other siblings and because of that I had to talk with some of my aunts and uncles to see if any of them could help me to take care of her. They all told me that they could not help, because they were taking care of their own families. I felt so bad because I did not know what do do with my grandmother. I looked into nursing home costs and it seemed like it was going to be expensive for us to all pay for her to stay outside. We made a deal with my aunts and uncles and they would have to pay us money monthly to take care of grandma. It can be hard to get good care for aging family members, and sometimes the best thing to do is to take care of them yourself.